Category: Foreplay Ideas

  • How to Eat Pussy: Delicious Ways for Eating Out in Style

    How to Eat Pussy: Delicious Ways for Eating Out in Style

    Let’s talk about eating pussy. No, I’m not talking about that special Chinese food. I’m talking about getting into your girl’s panties and savouring her hot, juicy lady parts. However, just like the first dish, you’ll be hungry for more after you’re done eating her out.

    As a sexual appetizer, main course or dessert, you might have a craving for sweet and sour poontang, sizzling va-jayjay, tuna taco, bikini burger, oyster stew or hot peach pie. Whatever you call her delicious treat, there are some basic culinary tips to keep in mind when you’re dining at the Y.

    • Get comfortable and prepare for a taste sensation
    • Don’t just dive in and devour everything
    • Start slow to build your appetite
    • Tickle all over with a light touch of your taste buds
    • Gently nibble on her lips
    • Use long, slow, lingering licks up, down, side to side and twirling all around
    • Get your whole mouth involved with lots of saliva
    • Suck softly using rhythmic pressure pulses to get her juices flowing
    • Probe deep between her sugar walls with your tongue
    • Savour the experience without rushing
    • Don’t be afraid to eat with your fingers
    • Pay attention to desired eating recommendations from the chef

    Above all, enjoy yourself and you’ll be invited to come again and again. Be sure to compliment the Chef and give her a big tip if she wants it.

    When you want to spice up your oral pleasuring, here are a few creative ideas you can try:

    • Enjoy a Fancy Feast by going down on your lady while she’s dolled up in formal wear or lingerie.
    • Dress up and pretend to be characters in a roleplay fantasy. Just imagine being the wolf eating Red Riding Hood or a vampire devouring orgasmic juices from his willing victim.
    • Try eating out after dark with absolutely no light. Use blindfolds if desired so you can focus on the sensual nuances.
    • Create a special playlist and synchronize licking to the rhythm, beat and intensity of your mood music. Try various types from classical to jazz to rock. Each type will stimulate different emotions and feelings.
    • Get a blanket and take a walk to a scenic natural setting. Find a safe, secluded spot to share a bottle of wine and an al fresco picnic of pussy.
    • Take a camping trip and eat out in the wild under the stars or next to an open fire.

    Why not make a date with your sweetheart and experience a wonderful culinary delight together tonight?

    When you’re ready for even more advanced female oral sex tips, get your hands on the Amazing Cunnilingus Guide with amazing techniques to make her cum. Enhance your pussy pleasuring skills and learn how to give her amazing orgasms every time. She’ll love you for it.


  • Creative Cunnilingus Tips: Fun Oral Sex Ideas To Make Her Moan With Pleasure

    Creative Cunnilingus Tips: Fun Oral Sex Ideas To Make Her Moan With Pleasure

    As a creative writing exercise and preparation for making a video on How to Eat Pussy, I tried to come up with as many ideas as I could to enhance oral sex for women. It’s a great technique for stimulating your erotic imagination and can lead to much more fun in and out of the bedroom. You can even turn it into a sex game by challenging your lover to write out a separate list of ideas at the same time. Set a 10-20 minute time limit and just start writing as fast as you can without censoring yourself. Keep the ideas short with just enough detail – go for quantity. Then put the lists together, sort out the ones you would both consider doing together and pick one randomly to enjoy. This erotic exercise is like mental foreplay and gets more than your creative juices flowing.

    The following is the list of pussy pleasuring ideas that I came up with. They’re in the order I wrote them with only minor edits.

    List of Creative Oral Sex Ideas

    1. Enjoy a fancy feast by going down on her while she’s dressed up in a formal dress and lingerie
    2. While she’s tied up and blindfolded, pretend you’re another person (male, female, celebrity)
    3. With a butt plug inserted, tap and jiggle it while you lick her
    4. Alternate your warm mouth with an ice cube or ice dildo
    5. Only touch her with your lips and tongue, avoiding all other contact
    6. While she reclines on an exercise ball
    7. In a position where she can look you directly in the eyes and you watch each other
    8. Use a small vibrator on her clit
    9. Use the underside of your tongue on her clit
    10. Stroke out letters on her entire labia to spell out how you want to fuck her
    11. Softly blow cool air and warm breaths on her clit
    12. Use a dildo or insertable vibrator while licking her clit
    13. While she’s floating in water (jacuzzi, pool, lake, ocean)
    14. In a semi public location under a dress or long skirt
    15. While she’s sitting on a swing
    16. While she’s on a low hanging branch of a tree
    17. On a pile of hay, grass or leaves
    18. On a fur coat
    19. By an open fire
    20. Under the stars
    21. Outside in a secluded location under the full moon
    22. Use a flavoured, warming lube that tastes good to you
    23. While tickling her feet and toes with a vibrator
    24. While she reads a dirty story out loud
    25. Doing only as she directs you in explicit detail
    26. To the rhythm and flow of a select piece of music – try different types of music from classical to jazz to rock
    27. While she’s watching lesbian porn and fantasizing you’re a woman eating her pussy
    28. While she films you close up with a hand held video camera
    29. While you’re laying on a bench and she squats over your face
    30. Set an alarm for 10, 15 or 20 minutes and stop when it goes off
    31. Alternate every few minutes with intercourse then back to oral
    32. Insert two fingers to massage her G-spot while licking her clit
    33. Have her use a vibrator on her nipples while you lick her pussy
    34. Insert vibrating Ben Wa balls
    35. Put two marbles in your mouth and roll them around her clit with your tongue
    36. Prop up her butt with a pile of pillows to get into a more comfortable position
    37. Warm her butt with a spanking over your knee first then savour her fiery hot pussy
    38. Outside in the snow
    39. While you’re both dressed as different characters in a roleplay fantasy (wolf and red riding hood, batman and cat woman, vampire and willing victim)
    40. Pretend your tongue is the flame of a candle dancing around her inner thighs enough to warm but not too hot (until later)
    41. Pretend you are a gigolo paid by the hour to service a rich client
    42. Pretend you are the serpent seducing Eve with your slithering tongue
    43. Balance a shot glass of liquor on her belly and STOP if it falls over (maybe slurp up the drink off her belly and reset it for another round)
    44. Outside in the rain
    45. Making extra slurping, humming and moaning sounds while recording your session with a microphone
    46. In pitch black darkness with only a tiny pen light between her butt cheeks to illuminate your face
    47. Use a metronome and keep a constant rhythm of tongue flicks, only varying the pressure as she builds to orgasm
    48. Use a timer that beeps every minute and then change to a different tongue motion each time it goes off
    49. While she’s still wearing her silky panties
    50. Using a dental dam with lube on her side and chocolate spread on your side
    51. Eat at the kitchen table
    52. Hold some champagne or sparkling water in your mouth while licking her clit
    53. Suck TicTacs or strong sugar-free mints in your mouth to give her clit a tingly feeling
    54. Experiment with different humming and moaning sounds/intensities while your mouth is over her clitoris
    55. Apply a small amount of perfume on her pubic mound

    Although I did think of adding foodstuffs like whip cream, cherries, mango, popsicles, etc., these were explicitly left off the list because you should really keep all sugary substances away from your lover’s vagina. Otherwise, you risk giving her a nasty yeast infection, which is not a pleasant experience for either of you. And leave off hot sauces, too, even though they’re delicious.

    I hope you get a chance to enjoy at least a few of the ideas above. They’re sexy suggestions that you can modify to suit your personal preferences and desires. Enhance your pussy pleasuring skills and learn how to give her amazing orgasms every time. She’ll love you for it.


  • Secret Arts of Hot Erotic Talk

    Secret Arts of Hot Erotic Talk

    Talking Dirty is Hot Foreplay
    Turn Each Other On With Aural Sex

    Does the idea of dirty talk in the bedroom get you excited? Have you been asked to talk dirty while making love but are too shy to go for it? Or do you want some hot erotic talk from your lover, but they feel too inhibited to let go? You are not alone. Words and how we say them have an extremely powerful influence on our emotions, good and bad. Talking dirty is like hot mental foreplay when you discover how to use the language of love as an aural aphrodisiac.

    Ever wonder why phone sex is such a big business? Guys spend many dollars a minute for hot, dirty talk from lusty women. And women swoon over a sexy voice and devour romance novels with descriptive scenes of seduction. Although most women and men tend to be shy about expressing their erotic desires, we all love to hear a sexy voice focused on arousing us. With a few techniques, you can learn how to use your voice as a powerful aural aphrodisiac. Talking dirty is hot foreplay when you discover your special language of love.

    Talking dirty is not just about using naughty or even filthy words. It’s about the erotic emotions and desires you want to convey and express. Sometimes, you’ll want to scream profanities in unbridled passion while at other times whisper the same words in public as a flirtatious hint of your frisky intentions. Imagine the sultry whisper of a seductress, the harsh command of a dominatrix or the ecstatic moans of a porn star. You can stimulate your lover’s erotic imagination with explicitly descriptive detail or seduce them with simple phrases spoken in a sexy tone.

    When you learn a few secret aural arousal techniques and master the art of hot erotic talk with practice, you’ll be able to:

    • Seduce your partner into (or out of) bed to make wild, passionate love.
    • Get your lover hot for you from a distance so they rush home to be with you.
    • Relax your lover and help them become receptive to fully enjoying the subtle sensations of slowly and sensually pleasuring each other.
    • Use your mouth in new ways to make your lover ache and quiver with desire for your physical touch.
    • Prolong foreplay while keeping the sexual heat just below the boiling point.
    • Describe in detail how you want to be pleasured in ways that are exciting and satisfying for both of you.
    • Paint an erotic mental picture of new sex play activities you would like to try and see where they lead.
    • Stimulate your erotic imaginations together and unlock secret sexual fantasies to share (every erotic activity is possible in your mind).
    • Build sexual tension, increase passion and even trigger intense orgasms with almost hypnotic control.

    If you have been holding back using your voice as part of your arousal arsenal, learn to unleash its power now and be amazed at the erotic results.

    • For women, become a verbal vixen empowered to get the passionate sex you craved only in your wildest fantasies. Get your guy hot and eager with your voice.
    • For guys, learn the language of love with a suave, sexy voice and women will swoon with a lust for your sensual touch. Use verbal sexy suggestions to seduce your lady and guide her sexual fantasies to a sheet-clutching climax.

    Get started today and unlock the exciting sexual powers of your voice. Expressing yourselves with erotic talk will also encourage you to have more intimate discussions that can improve other aspects of your relationship. Learn the secrets of aural sex today and enjoy hot mental foreplay anytime you desire. Hot dirty talk in and out of the bedroom will spice up your relationship and stimulate your minds.

    Also, if you are not in a relationship yet, it’s the best time to develop your flirty, dirty talking skills. They will be your most valuable asset while meeting and dating people anywhere. Internet dating especially relies on the power of your words and, eventually, your voice to generate attraction. Do it for yourself and your soul mate you’re sure to meet.

    Stimulate Your Desire … Enjoy Talking Dirty Together!

    Sealed with a Kiss

  • Mental Foreplay: Hot Talk Leads to Even Hotter Sex

    Have you ever noticed that when you start talking about sexy ideas, you start to get aroused and want to have sex as soon as possible? Just talking about it gets your mind thinking of new sensual activities you’d like to try with your partner. It can even stimulate erotic fantasies of wild new pleasures to explore together.

    Now imagine you’re curled up with your sweetheart, thinking of getting frisky. You want to try out some new sex ideas, but you’re not sure if they’re in the mood. Sure, you could just ask them if they want to try out a new sex tip or foreplay technique, but the thought of them saying no is a risk you don’t want to take. Will they be shocked or offended by the wild ideas you want to explore, or are they waiting and hoping that you’ll be the one to initiate something new? If only you could find out what they’re thinking – maybe get them talking with you about sex in a way that allows you to bring up your desires together.

    Like mental foreplay, an intimate conversation about personal erotic desires can be an amazing turn-on for both men and women. Unfortunately, talking about intimate or sensitive subjects like sex can be difficult for many people, especially with someone you really care about. One of the best ways to start an intimate discussion about sex is to playfully ask each other leading questions about various sexual topics. You can start with questions inspired from magazine articles, movies, television commercials or things you’ve heard other people talking about at work.

    This can get you started but you may still find it hard making up your own sex questions on the spur of the moment. You may even feel a little awkward asking questions about certain types of subjects like kinky sex play or fetishes. That’s where a book of sex questions comes into play. You don’t need to make up or even pick the questions yourself. And there are bound to bebout topics you would never have considered asking each other, sex questions a yet could lead right into a discussion related to one of your secret sexual desires.

    To help inspire couples to improve their relationship and enjoy better sex together, my husband and I decided to write a book with fun questions designed to get you talking about various types of sexy subjects. It’s called 469 Fun Sex Questions for Couples: Ignite Your Desire With Hot Talk.

    This book will help guide you through a series of intimate questions while you build confidence and trust in each other. You can use the questions any time to stimulate thought-provoking discussions that will arouse both your mind and body. You’ll love teasing and tantalizing each other with hot talk as you reveal your answers and inflame your craving for each other. You’ll find out what really turns each other on while getting turned on in the process.

    Even if you’ve been married for many years, these fun questions will help you discover more about what your partner thinks of your sex life. They’ll help you express your desires and encourage you to discover more about yourself as well. Whether you’re curled up next to each other or talking on the phone, start a sexy conversation today and see where it leads. When you feel more comfortable talking about sex together, you’ll feel much more comfortable enjoying sex, too.

    Get a copy of the 469 Fun Sex Questions for Couples book today. Just click on the link or the book image to order it from Amazon. It comes with a broad range of questions that’ll help inspire your desire with creative new ideas for being naughty, frisky and playful. All the sex questions are for fun and for play. See how many questions you can get through before ravishing each other.

    You can even download the ebook version for the Kindle right now and Enjoy Hot Talk for Even Hotter Sex Tonight. We even have a version for lesbian couples.

  • Frisky Vibrations: Foreplay Ideas for Couples With a Vibrator

    Frisky Vibrations: Foreplay Ideas for Couples With a Vibrator

    Are vibrators just for women to masturbate with when they don’t have a partner? Are sex toys the last resort for women who can’t orgasm through intercourse? Of course not. Vibrators are not just for single girls or unsatisfied wives. Sex toys are designed to enhance sex and to be played with for fun and pleasure, whether alone or with a partner. When you play together as a couple, they can be even more enjoyable.

    Unfortunately, many people in a relationship feel embarrassed and uncomfortable about using sex toys in the bedroom. Some don’t even want their partner to know they have any at all. Thinking questions like “Why should she need a vibrator if she has the real thing?” and “Will he think that I think he’s not good enough in bed?” create a lot of anxiety about revealing sex toys to each other. Rather than being intimidated by sex toys, guys especially should eagerly encourage their partner to bring out their toys and share the experience. And if you don’t have any, demonstrate your sexual confidence and go out shopping for one together.

    To help inspire couples to play with their sex toys together more often, I decided to come up with as many foreplay ideas as I could think of that involve using a vibrator. But before you take a look, consider playing a sexy game with your partner to see which of you can think of the most. Just thinking of new sexy ideas is like mental foreplay that’ll get you both excited. Get your erotic imagination warmed up with some very frisky sexual fantasies as you mentally picture the fun you’ll enjoy together. You can play this erotic game anytime you desire with all kinds of different topics. It’ll keep your sexual creativity alive and ensure your sex life is never boring.

    Here’s the list I came up with for you. I hope you enjoy these frisky foreplay ideas:

    1. Buy a new vibrator and gift wrap it with a sexy note describing what you want to do with it together later. Leave it in a spot your lover will find it while you’re away for a bit. Give them at least a few hours to anticipate the fun.
    2. Browse various internet sex toy sites together looking for unique and interesting vibrators you can play with together. Discuss what you each like about the various adult toys. Get yourself in the mood with some dirty talk about what you would do with the ones you like. Eden Fantasys has a great collection for couples. If you want something more kinky, check out JT Stockroom’s exotic sex devices.
    3. Make a date to go sex toy shopping together. Arrange to use the toy before you get home – get batteries, toy cleaner and lube at the time of purchase. Think of some wild and frisky places to enjoy the toy (see our 69 Fantasy Lovemaking Locations sex coupon book for ideas).
    4. Play a foreplay game together that includes activities involving a vibrator and other sexy accessories. You can also make up your own erotic game. Include a timer and race the clock to orgasmic ecstasy.
    5. Let your partner watch as you masturbate with a vibrator. Demonstrate your favourite technique so they can watch and learn. Or, if you’re feeling really frisky, tease them with some really hot self pleasuring action and dirty talk. To ensure they don’t rush the climax of your show, you might even want to tie them up so you can tease them and yourself for as long as you desire. Bondage bed sheets with velcro cuffs are great for this.
    6. When your partner is in the shower, create a sensational surprise by joining them with a waterproof vibe. If you have a detachable shower head, combine the vibrations with warm pulsing water for even more intense pleasure.
    7. Invite your lover to enjoy a bubble bath with you and a waterproof vibrator (they even have special Rubber Duckie for this purpose). Turn warm and relaxing into hot, wet and excited.
    8. Create an exquisite sensation when you use a vibrator against your cheek while going down on your partner. Guys can do it too while gently sucking her nipples or clit.
    9. Everyone loves a foot massage. It can be even more heavenly for your partner when you add the touch of a vibrator to their toes and soles of their feet. Add some lube to their toes and caress them with a vibrator while massaging them with your fingers too.
    10. Ultra lightly stroke the vibrator against the tips of your lover’s fingers then tickle down to their palm, up along their wrist and up their arm. Awaken every nerve and stimulate their sense of touch even more.
    11. Stroke the vibrator between and around her breasts. Circle each areola without touching her nipples and watch as they perk up, looking for attention too. It works on guys just as well.
    12. Apply some warming lube to your lover’s nipples and stimulate them with a vibrator turned on low setting to start. Blow lightly on one nipple while vibrating the other and alternate. Eventually, alternate licking and sucking each nipple while using the vibrator on the other one. Ladies, don’t hesitate to stimulate your guy’s nipples too.
    13. Use a vibrator while you still have your clothes on. Stroke along erogenous zones over articles of clothing before you remove them from your lover. Tease them slowly and make their skin tingle as you strip them completely naked, ready for your loving. Stroke her nipples through her silky bra to make them perk up. Make her wet as you glide the vibrator along her panties or make him hard as you trace along his underwear.
    14. Lightly tickle the back of your lover’s neck. Trace down their spine to make them quiver. Then, use your tongue to lick over the same path to drive them even more wild with delightful shivers. You can also apply chocolate syrup on their body using the vibrator then lick it up.
    15. Delicately stroke your lover’s lips, cheeks and along their throat. If you have a quiet vibe, stroke around their ears. Tickle their earlobes then lick and suck them gently.
    16. Use a vibrator to trace up your lover’s legs from their feet to their thighs. Tickle the back of their knees, their butt and their inner thighs while avoiding their genitals.
    17. Experiment with different types of battery-powered sex toys such as Vibrating Nipple Clamps, butt plugs, anal beads, cock rings, ben wa balls, tongue vibes, etc. Make up a sex game to determine which type of vibrator to play with.
    18. Tickle her belly button and stomach then trace the vibrator lightly along the crease of her thighs and around her pussy. Delicately stimulate her mound and along her lips without touching her clit. Make her clit ache for your tongue then continue using the vibrator as you lick her.
    19. Use a clitoral vibrator while also using a dildo or g-spot vibrator with lube for internal stimulation. Mix in some oral pleasuring to build her excitement even more.
    20. Use a remote control vibrator while out in public. Try to remain as straight-faced and calm as you can while your partner tries to tease you to ecstasy. Plan the location so you can rush to a safe spot to have a quickie when the time is right.
    21. Give him a hand or blow job while he wears a Vibrating Cock Ring. Or, while pleasuring him manually or orally, use a vibrator to tease his balls and perineum.
    22. Stimulate his testicles and along the shaft with a vibrator as you lick and suck the head of his cock. With some lube, use the vibrator on the head if it’s not too sensitive.
    23. Read erotic stories or sex letters together while using a vibrator to masturbate. This is great for phone sex with each other, too. Or blindfold her and tell her an erotic fantasy that includes some thrilling vibrations (controlled by you) as part of the story. Talk dirty in explicit detail as you stimulate her mind and body.
    24. Caress your lover’s buttocks with a vibrator, then trace it down their butt cheeks. Circle around their anus and stimulate their perineum.
    25. Play together with a double ended anal vibrator or with a vibrating strap-on. Anal play may be taboo and kinky but that makes it even more fun.
    26. Use a vibrator for clitoral or anal stimulation while having intercourse. The We-vibe is a really amazing couples vibrator designed to be inserted during intercourse to provide simultaneous stimulation of the g-spot, clitoris and penis. Or use a Vibrating Butt plug during intercourse. Also, try anal intercourse while also using a vaginally inserted vibrator.
    27. While watching TV, use a vibrator on each other only during commercials. See if you can make it through the entire show before ravishing each other on the sofa.
    28. Blindfold your naked partner and randomly touch spots on their body with the tip of a vibrator – similar to the butterfly tease technique using an artist brush. They can be lying down but there are more erogenous zones to tease if they stand up.
    29. Video record yourself masturbating with a vibrator, then put it on your lover’s smartphone or iPad. Try different versions showing all of you, only your body with close-ups of the action or one with just your face during orgasm.
    30. Create a sexual role-play adventure using one or more vibrators as props. For example, pretend to be a door-to-door sex toy salesperson who gives demonstrations, a mad scientist sex toy inventor who’s captured a test subject, or a spy/interrogator with special vibrating truth devices.
    31. Slow dance (naked or clothed) while holding a vibrator between you without using your hands. Create a dance mix that starts off slow and then increases in tempo. As the music heats up, grind together and see if you can give each other an orgasm before the music stops or the battery runs out.

    I hope you have fun with these sexy foreplay ideas. I’m sure you can come up with many more wild and erotic ideas. Please leave a comment with some of your naughty ideas for couples to have more frisky fun together using a vibrator. To help inspire you to use your toys together, we’ve created a sex toy coupon book.

    If you want even more delightfully sensual and stimulating ideas to playfully tease and tantalize each other, get our Extra Naughty Frisky Foreplay gamebook. It has over 200 foreplay ideas for each of you. You can download the Kindle version right now and enjoy amazing sex tonight. Surprise your partner by spicing up your love life with some creative sex that is novel and exciting.