Frisky Vibrations: Foreplay Ideas for Couples With a Vibrator

Are vibrators just for women to masturbate with when they don’t have a partner? Are sex toys the last resort for women who can’t orgasm through intercourse? Of course not. Vibrators are not just for single girls or unsatisfied wives. Sex toys are designed to enhance sex and to be played with for fun and pleasure, whether alone or with a partner. When you play together as a couple, they can be even more enjoyable.

Unfortunately, many people in a relationship feel embarrassed and uncomfortable about using sex toys in the bedroom. Some don’t even want their partner to know they have any at all. Thinking questions like “Why should she need a vibrator if she has the real thing?” and “Will he think that I think he’s not good enough in bed?” create a lot of anxiety about revealing sex toys to each other. Rather than being intimidated by sex toys, guys especially should eagerly encourage their partner to bring out their toys and share the experience. And if you don’t have any, demonstrate your sexual confidence and go out shopping for one together.

To help inspire couples to play with their sex toys together more often, I decided to come up with as many foreplay ideas as I could think of that involve using a vibrator. But before you take a look, consider playing a sexy game with your partner to see which of you can think of the most. Just thinking of new sexy ideas is like mental foreplay that’ll get you both excited. Get your erotic imagination warmed up with some very frisky sexual fantasies as you mentally picture the fun you’ll enjoy together. You can play this erotic game anytime you desire with all kinds of different topics. It’ll keep your sexual creativity alive and ensure your sex life is never boring.

Here’s the list I came up with for you. I hope you enjoy these frisky foreplay ideas:

Buy a new vibrator and gift wrap it with a sexy note describing what you want to do with it together later. Leave it in a spot your lover will find it while you’re away for a bit. Give them at least a few hours to anticipate the fun.
Browse various internet sex toy sites together looking for unique and interesting vibrators you can play with together. Discuss what you each like about the various adult toys. Get yourself in the mood with some dirty talk about what you would do with the ones you like. Eden Fantasys has a great collection for couples. If you want something more kinky, check out JT Stockroom’s exotic sex devices.
Make a date to go sex toy shopping together. Arrange to use the toy before you get home – get batteries, toy cleaner and lube at the time of purchase. Think of some wild and frisky places to enjoy the toy (see our 69 Fantasy Lovemaking Locations sex coupon book for ideas).
Play a foreplay game together that includes activities involving a vibrator and other sexy accessories. You can also make up your own erotic game. Include a timer and race the clock to orgasmic ecstasy.
Let your partner watch as you masturbate with a vibrator. Demonstrate your favourite technique so they can watch and learn. Or, if you’re feeling really frisky, tease them with some really hot self pleasuring action and dirty talk. To ensure they don’t rush the climax of your show, you might even want to tie them up so you can tease them and yourself for as long as you desire. Bondage bed sheets with velcro cuffs are great for this.
When your partner is in the shower, create a sensational surprise by joining them with a waterproof vibe. If you have a detachable shower head, combine the vibrations with warm pulsing water for even more intense pleasure.
Invite your lover to enjoy a bubble bath with you and a waterproof vibrator (they even have special Rubber Duckie for this purpose). Turn warm and relaxing into hot, wet and excited.
Create an exquisite sensation when you use a vibrator against your cheek while going down on your partner. Guys can do it too while gently sucking her nipples or clit.
Everyone loves a foot massage. It can be even more heavenly for your partner when you add the touch of a vibrator to their toes and soles of their feet. Add some lube to their toes and caress them with a vibrator while massaging them with your fingers too.
Ultra lightly stroke the vibrator against the tips of your lover’s fingers then tickle down to their palm, up along their wrist and up their arm. Awaken every nerve and stimulate their sense of touch even more.
Stroke the vibrator between and around her breasts. Circle each areola without touching her nipples and watch as they perk up, looking for attention too. It works on guys just as well.
Apply some warming lube to your lover’s nipples and stimulate them with a vibrator turned on low setting to start. Blow lightly on one nipple while vibrating the other and alternate. Eventually, alternate licking and sucking each nipple while using the vibrator on the other one. Ladies, don’t hesitate to stimulate your guy’s nipples too.
Use a vibrator while you still have your clothes on. Stroke along erogenous zones over articles of clothing before you remove them from your lover. Tease them slowly and make their skin tingle as you strip them completely naked, ready for your loving. Stroke her nipples through her silky bra to make them perk up. Make her wet as you glide the vibrator along her panties or make him hard as you trace along his underwear.
Lightly tickle the back of your lover’s neck. Trace down their spine to make them quiver. Then, use your tongue to lick over the same path to drive them even more wild with delightful shivers. You can also apply chocolate syrup on their body using the vibrator then lick it up.
Delicately stroke your lover’s lips, cheeks and along their throat. If you have a quiet vibe, stroke around their ears. Tickle their earlobes then lick and suck them gently.
Use a vibrator to trace up your lover’s legs from their feet to their thighs. Tickle the back of their knees, their butt and their inner thighs while avoiding their genitals.
Experiment with different types of battery-powered sex toys such as Vibrating Nipple Clamps, butt plugs, anal beads, cock rings, ben wa balls, tongue vibes, etc. Make up a sex game to determine which type of vibrator to play with.
Tickle her belly button and stomach then trace the vibrator lightly along the crease of her thighs and around her pussy. Delicately stimulate her mound and along her lips without touching her clit. Make her clit ache for your tongue then continue using the vibrator as you lick her.
Use a clitoral vibrator while also using a dildo or g-spot vibrator with lube for internal stimulation. Mix in some oral pleasuring to build her excitement even more.
Use a remote control vibrator while out in public. Try to remain as straight-faced and calm as you can while your partner tries to tease you to ecstasy. Plan the location so you can rush to a safe spot to have a quickie when the time is right.
Give him a hand or blow job while he wears a Vibrating Cock Ring. Or, while pleasuring him manually or orally, use a vibrator to tease his balls and perineum.
Stimulate his testicles and along the shaft with a vibrator as you lick and suck the head of his cock. With some lube, use the vibrator on the head if it’s not too sensitive.
Read erotic stories or sex letters together while using a vibrator to masturbate. This is great for phone sex with each other, too. Or blindfold her and tell her an erotic fantasy that includes some thrilling vibrations (controlled by you) as part of the story. Talk dirty in explicit detail as you stimulate her mind and body.
Caress your lover’s buttocks with a vibrator, then trace it down their butt cheeks. Circle around their anus and stimulate their perineum.
Play together with a double ended anal vibrator or with a vibrating strap-on. Anal play may be taboo and kinky but that makes it even more fun.
Use a vibrator for clitoral or anal stimulation while having intercourse. The We-vibe is a really amazing couples vibrator designed to be inserted during intercourse to provide simultaneous stimulation of the g-spot, clitoris and penis. Or use a Vibrating Butt plug during intercourse. Also, try anal intercourse while also using a vaginally inserted vibrator.
While watching TV, use a vibrator on each other only during commercials. See if you can make it through the entire show before ravishing each other on the sofa.
Blindfold your naked partner and randomly touch spots on their body with the tip of a vibrator – similar to the butterfly tease technique using an artist brush. They can be lying down but there are more erogenous zones to tease if they stand up.
Video record yourself masturbating with a vibrator, then put it on your lover’s smartphone or iPad. Try different versions showing all of you, only your body with close-ups of the action or one with just your face during orgasm.
Create a sexual role-play adventure using one or more vibrators as props. For example, pretend to be a door-to-door sex toy salesperson who gives demonstrations, a mad scientist sex toy inventor who’s captured a test subject, or a spy/interrogator with special vibrating truth devices.
Slow dance (naked or clothed) while holding a vibrator between you without using your hands. Create a dance mix that starts off slow and then increases in tempo. As the music heats up, grind together and see if you can give each other an orgasm before the music stops or the battery runs out.

I hope you have fun with these sexy foreplay ideas. I’m sure you can come up with many more wild and erotic ideas. Please leave a comment with some of your naughty ideas for couples to have more frisky fun together using a vibrator. To help inspire you to use your toys together, we’ve created a sex toy coupon book.

If you want even more delightfully sensual and stimulating ideas to playfully tease and tantalize each other, get our Extra Naughty Frisky Foreplay gamebook. It has over 200 foreplay ideas for each of you. You can download the Kindle version right now and enjoy amazing sex tonight. Surprise your partner by spicing up your love life with some creative sex that is novel and exciting.

Tags: butt plugs, cock ring, dirty talk, kinky sex, nipple clamps, sex games, sex toys, sexy ideas, vibrators for couples, waterproof vibrators